FETLIFE: A Review.
A while back, I decided to give Fetlife a try. For those of you unfamiliar with it, it is a site for those of us interested in BDSM. Kind of a BDSM friendly MySpace or FaceBook. Initially, I was...
View ArticleFetlife Decides to Appologize
John Baku, the founder and owner of FetLife, issued an apology for the banning of some individuals earlier this week. I think this is an excellent step forward for this site, and a view of the...
View ArticleFetLife’s Christmas Stocking.
FetLife, and it’s advertisers, are giving away over $500 worth of goodies this Christmas to it’s fans. So, sign up now if you haven’t and go get yours. MV Posted in BDSM, Breaking News, Links Tagged:...
View ArticleFetLife Reaches 100,000 Members today
I just thought I would share this bit of news with everyone. JohnBaku announced that FetLife had its 100,000th member join today. This is less than 13 months after it’s January 3, 2008, launch. In case...
View ArticleGraydancer’s Ropecast
Ok, sometimes I am late to the party. I only learned of Graydancer’s Ropecast reciently by following John Baku (FetLife‘s founder) on twitter. He will be on it later this month (it appears that there...
View Article“Teasing” a New FetLife Site – Kinky Tease
John Baku (why does this man not have a Wikipedia entry?) has announced that due to popular demand, FetLife will have a line of t-shirts, and maybe other schwag. I am eagerly awaiting the T-shirts,...
View ArticleYear in Review: BDSM Style
Given that this is the first week of the new year, I thought I would take a moment or two and reflect on some of the bigger stories (in my humble opinion) of the last year. It was an interesting year...
View ArticleFetLife: A New User’s Guide part 1
FetLife really changed the game when it came online back in 2008. FetLife was a different sort of social networking site. Before it existed, the kink community congregated in sites like Alt.com,...
View ArticleMore on FetLife
I ran across this video blog the other day, and I thought I would share it with you. I hope you find it interesting. [Youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQPTW4vyjAQ] You can see what she says about...
View ArticleMy Slave Isn’t My Girlfriend
I saw a post on FetLife the other day where someone asked why her Dom said she made a better girlfriend than a sub. This cause a bit of confusion for people. They did not get that there was a real...
View ArticleThe New But Not Improved FetLife Feed
OK, I am giving my ideas about the FetLife feed on my own page. I have made some changes to the graphics to protect the innocent. (As if any of my FetLife friends are innocent, LOL.) Before I launch...
View ArticleFetLife and Chat: Feeling Betrayed
So ever since James announced chat coming to FetLife I’ve felt betrayed. I recall vividly John Baku saying that Chat would not come to FetLife. That there would never be a way to show who is online....
View ArticlePUSH it.
That was a good song. Loved it. Saw this posted today on FetLife, an event in Durham, NC called PUSH. It seems interesting. If it were closer, I would try to attend. You might want to check it out if...
View ArticleTo Slaves: Yes you Have a Choice
Photo credit: Wikipedia Ok. I saw something on FetLife today that really annoyed me. A slave essentially said the following: It isn’t my choice to do this, my Master made me do this. Bull-fucking-shit....
View ArticleIs FetLife About to Go Out of Business?
The leather pride flag, which has become a symbol of BDSM and fetish subcultures. (Photo credit: Wikipedia) I saw this question in the tech support forum on FetLife today. This sparked me to think...
View ArticleFetLife’s Dirty Little Secret
FetLife has a secret. There are things it has not been telling you. There are things FetLife doesn’t want you to know about. Things FetLife has been strangely silent on. There are things there (some of...
View ArticleFetLife: A New User’s Guide part 1
FetLife really changed the game when it came online back in 2008. FetLife was a different sort of social networking site. Before it existed, the kink community congregated in sites like Alt.com,...
View ArticleTo Slaves: Yes you Have a Choice
Photo credit: Wikipedia Ok. I saw something on FetLife today that really annoyed me. A slave essentially said the following: It isn’t my choice to do this, my Master made me do this. Bull-fucking-shit....
View ArticleFetLife’s Great Purge
Looks like our favorite fetish social network is purging again, and has been silent on it again too. Right now there is no credit card payment option, no add new group link, and groups and fetishes on...
View ArticleMy Thoughts on the Recent Purge on FetLife
Recently I posted about the new purge of forbidden fetishes and groups on FetLife. I want to make something clear. While I hate that John Baku and BitLove have to toe the line of the credit card...
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